CHILDREN across Gloucestershire are set to benefit from improved understanding and decision-making after kinship carers shared their experiences directly with councillors at a recent county council event.

Gloucestershire County Council hosted “Kinship Voices: A Conversation with Councillors”, bringing together carers and elected members to discuss how best to support children living with relatives or close family friends when their parents are unable to care for them.

Kinship care provides stability within a familiar network, but those stepping into the role often do so at short notice during times of family crisis.

The event gave councillors first-hand insight into these challenges, with carers and a young person named Perran speaking openly about their experiences.

Perran said: “What started as a kind gesture turned into something permanent – and something really special. Kinship care isn’t always easy. One of the hardest things is that life has more rules.

“There are permissions needed for things that most teenagers don’t think twice about – sleepovers, trips. I know the rules are there to keep people safe, but I think adults sometimes forget how those rules feel when you’re the young person living with them. What makes the biggest difference is being listened to.”

Carers highlighted the need for early information, clear guidance and consistent practical support, while also stressing the importance of feeling recognised and understood.

Councillors were invited to make pledges following the event, which will be reviewed in three months to ensure progress.

Cabinet member for children’s safeguarding and care, Cllr Ben Evans, said: “Kinship carers provide an amazing level of support, care and love.

“Hearing directly from them helps us understand what works and where improvements are needed.”

The council said the feedback will help shape future policies and ensure decisions reflect real-life experiences of families across Gloucestershire communities.